What makes a marrige happy.

Abstract

The article "What Makes a Marriage Happy" by M. Azizur Rahman explores the foundational elements of a successful marital union, emphasizing mutual love, understanding, and shared values as cornerstones. The author argues that beyond material needs like income and education, emotional compatibility—rooted in similar social, financial, religious, and cultural backgrounds—is critical for lasting harmony. Conservative families, where marriages are often arranged, tend to experience greater stability compared to modern unions prone to divorce. Key factors include sacrifice, democratic decision-making, and alignment in aspirations, profession, and temperament. The piece warns against disparities in education or wealth, which can breed conflict, and advocates for equality in partnerships, echoing Nobel laureate Gary S. Becker’s assertion that "marriage takes place between two equals." Ultimately, happy marriages foster family well-being, which in turn contributes to national prosperity.